Tijuana, Mexico: On Saturday, February 9, a group Adult Work Campers gathered in the Church of the Beatitudes parking lot at 5:00 Am to begin a several hour journey to Tijuana, Mexico. I loaded up my backpack, suitcase full of dreams, ever present camera along with Max McHugh and Curt Spotts to name a few and bleary eyed Curt drove off in our rented 15 passenger van first stop the San Diego Airport. By the time we got to Tijuana, Eperanza Mission site we were 44 people strong, ranging in age from 14 to late 70’s, male and female, hearty and healthy. We went down to Revolution and had our first night dinner out. Food and fellowship was great.

Each day we began with a breakfast delivered by our many short order cooks, variety designed omelets, French toast, pancakes, eggs, bacon, ham, oat meal, mush, and much more. Then we shared a time of praise as we did each morning. On our first full day, Sunday we had the several families joined us for a fiesta … people who had had homes built for them and those we were about to work for/with from the community over the years. You may want to ask Max about his day … What happens in Tijuana stays in Tijuana. Many were fed, and fellowship was contagious and fraternal. Those of us who were first timers … many friends were made. For those who have been going down for years friendships were renewed … Piñatas, soccer, singing, and multilingual conversations.

Monday we again began our day with breakfast and worship and began our work site experiences. The first day we dug out a foundation with picks, shovels, buckets and bodies. Oh my … what I might have paid for a backhoe and operator about 2:00 PM that first day. Tired, blistered and feeling my age along with everyone else we piled into our van for a ride home to our Esperanza Plaza. Our showers were abrupt, but food was devoured, I opened a good book, fell asleep in my chair and went early to bed. Oh my … it felt wonderful to crawl into my sleeping bag.

Up early, 6-ish, repetition and completion. Finished the foundation, laughing and slumped shouldered by 3:30 PM we went home. Bed by 8:30, asleep by 9:00 … Book, beans and rice, snoring, nothing kept this laborer from his appointed sleep.

We worked on Foundations, cement walls, blocks, digging, bucket passing, stacking and restacking dirt, stone, cement blocks, and more … painted community compost out-houses, ran jack-hammers, cement mixer, and much more … Hard physical labor can transport the mind and spirit at times as well as a brilliantly crafted phrase. Praise be to God for balance.

Some people tell the story of how they gave a person a fish and then gave the person the fishing pole and taught them to fish. This miracle is ever present across the landscape of Tijuana, Mexico …where ever Esperanza has placed its mark. Jesus must be proud to see his words take form in the hearts, minds and lives of the people … Curt thank you for your invitation and friendship … Max you can dance with the best of them. Ta-Ta for now! Ted

Today started with a pancake breakfast.  The kids were great in helping me set it up and did almost all the work.  We had let the place degrade in cleaniness so we mopped and cleaned the kitchen and then … when they went outside to trim bushes … I mopped the Hall … twice.  Nancy yes, even I needed to clean it.

Then, we had time to clean out the refrigerator, using up all the leftovers of the week and feasting again on the good food. 

Then a friend came in and lead the group in drumming… teaching us that in the community of drummers it is more important to listen to the lead voice than to just let the drums talk unchecked.  Who ever is the declared voice … the others seek to listen to … and then build around.  Therefore it is important to wactch and listen to the leaders beat, growing louder as they get louder, quieting as they quiet… and stopping when they have chosen to be done.  Leading is also an art.  If you are the desided lead voice in the group you have to remain in a focused rhythmn, clear and not worry about yourself … but allow others to build and bring color to the sound around you.  There were times we played wonderfully together and times of discordant noise.  But all in all very inspiring.

 It is so wonderful to be with these fine young people and advisors on trips such as this.  We are learing about each other… who is the hard worker… who is the reflector… who never shuts up … and who is the infrequent author of sound.  We are not always harmonious and often have to wrestle through contervalant thoughts and feelings, recognizing that being open … means we have to listen to more than our own hearts… respecting the truth offered from the other neighbors and family memebers that surround our lives.  It has often lead us deeper into who we are and truly whose we are. 

 See ya’ll tomorrow, or Saturday or Sunday or someday.  Ted

From Work Camp in CA: The days are full of neighbors. For days we have been looking for the unexpected neighbor to learn about our empathy, prejudices, love and blindspots.

The first night we surprised ourselves talking about homeless, poverty, people feeling lost and alone…Then one voicesaid, “That is like my neighborhood.”All of a sudden, the neighbors looked familiar.

Who is my neighbor?

Who is the Samaritan?

Who is the Levite?

Who is the priest?

 What am I to do and be?..The one to show mercy…The many who live mercy?..The unexpected neighbor type? …Showing courageous acts of kindness?

             Nancy and I began to talk about the General Synod meeting in Hartford , the numerous vacation conversations we had with friends and our excitement over dear friends yet to see.  As we talked my mind was distracted by a couple having a loud conversation, causing me to wonder … How much do we really hear of what we say to one another … How much do we hear of what is being said … Do we actually hear what the other intends … what do we actually filter out … what is ignored … unconsciously or consciously … How much does it change what is being said?  The question arose how often am I so intent on making my points … that I miss the connection, relationship, the intent for our time together … that I miss the purpose of re-creation … vacation … communication … The sound of “Stop!” … “Can’t you understand?” … “What do you mean?” “Do you actually mean that?”  “What do you mean by love?”

            I apologized to Nancy as I checked back in … Sitting next to me she had stopped talking, looking out at the approaching shore ahead … The Ferry’s sound system began broadcasting something … moments lost … can we ever get them back … connection, love, relationship?

           One ship was leaving Port Jeff as we were arriving … a normal course creating space for one another.  Friends greet us and life goes on … Tomorrow will be another day … if we live in a linear/time space continuum.  Good Night Jim Bob.

Life has been good to us and at 80 years time is coming when good byes are in order … Until we again say hello. 

            How many times did Aunt Bonny open her home and heart to me and my sisters, taking care of us, gifting us with laughter, love and life.  She was always ready to take us to the Squirrel Club, go to the Zoo, and listen to our stories, sharing her own.

            When it came to courage, independence, and big visions she taught us by her example.  She had the courage to step out of the family circle and go off school … in the city.  She was a trend setter that did not sacrifice her family relationships to grow.  She took us with her.  She wrote letters and made phone calls to let us know she was ok and set trends for young women of intelligence and beauty to follow.  She was tough, pretty and smart … A woman in a man’s world.

            She gave my sisters (Irene and Shirley) and I our first bicycles.  They were the gift of independence for us, a gift beyond compare.  Her graciousness, opened the world to us. Through those bikes we were able to venture out into the wider world of sodas and candy bars, baseball games and the school play ground.

            Almost every weekend she and Howard came up to stay, while Howard played golf, she played with us and talked with Mom…

            Over these last years, when she would hear my voice … that winsome smile would cross her face and she would pucker waiting for my kiss … and whispered, “I love you…always.” 

            Family, generosity of spirit, pushing the edges, laughter, kisses, and I love you… These are my memories of Bonny.  I have loved and will miss her … until again we meet in the now that is eternal.  Good bye my sweet.

            Nancy says, “Were you working? 

            I confessed, “Yes,” my obvious response. 

            “Go ahead,” Nancy tells me.

            I turned on my computer and begin grinding out a couple hundred emails.  An hour or so later … When I next come to … check my out basket … it’s stuffed and ready for connection.  I begin the shut down process and settle back with a cup of tea and let go once again … knowing that tomorrow I am back to it.  All in a moment … “Vacation?”  “What?”             There was that moment of resentment …. Then … ultimately that touch  … some might call work … others … time with loved ones.  I am the same way when Nancy drags me to the pool.  I know it is going to be cold at the touch, but then … all in a moment … Ah … comfort … Home again!

            Love you … See yah tomorrow!  Ted

            Sitting in worship at First Congregational, UCC in Southington, Connecticut , we were surrounded by Congregational history and tradition.  As Rev. Dr. Gordon Ellis preached the word … he told us of his love of Congregational history, traditions, spoke of our denomination’s historic leadership … with so many cutting edge firsts … that eventually became culturally normative … and the cost of being a justice seeking community.  At the end of each historic turning point we remembered … yes … there had been discomfort and discontent.  It is our tradition not to leave our brains at the door … making us who we are.  What’s not to Love about the UCC?

            Sitting in a traditional Connecticut , Congregational narrow wooden pew we sang songs lead by a six piece band and seven voice group singing none traditional praise music.  In the heart of traditional New England , land of our forbearers came the lead guitar licks and driving base founded on the drum of Rock and Roll.  Rocking side to side and tapping to the beat … we were asked … What’s not to love about the UCC?

            Clearly in the congregations voice came … We love the UCC.  In the heart land of tradition and history came the experience of Change … is … why we are here … God is Still Speaking and calling us beyond our selves to ever seek and become a just and including people. 

            Wish I had preached the word … After all What’s not to love about the UCC.  Maybe I will. 

Completingly … joined in Christ…We find the face of Christ shining out of the eyes of our sisters and brothers.  Love shines forth … from Tom and Brenda, Ted and Sue, Dalton, Tom and Sandy … and so many more friends, loved ones and partners in the work of the church. 

            So often we feel ourselves standing alone, lost and lonely facing the world’s challenges.  Yet in the moment, of envisioning a loved ones face, I recognize Christ’s light shining, connecting, completing relationship … Where once was distance and brokenness … Christ’s light shines.

            Tom and Brenda asked of friends … in a hug and whisper … we can confirmed … speaking of love … reconnecting lives … moments before at a distance … again one …  Ministries begun, touched, shinig and through our lives completingly joined in Christ.